For the Next Three Months.
Relationship Clarity Circles will concentrate on one particular field:
Money & Relationships
Money is rarely only about money.
It moves through our relationships with family, partners, work and
ourselves. It is woven into how we give and receive, how we care for others,
what we believe we deserve—and whether we dare to give time and energy to what
matters deeply to us.
Perhaps something has been quietly growing within you: an idea, a
longing, a contribution or a different way of living. Yet much of your energy
continues to flow towards other people’s needs, responsibilities and
expectations.
Or perhaps you have spoken about what matters to you, only to encounter
doubt or ridicule:
- Who do you think you are?
- Is that realistic?
- How will you make money from it?
After a while, other people’s voices can become our own inner voice. We
postpone what is asking to emerge—or stop speaking about it altogether.
Money & Relationships is a six-week online circle where you can explore these experiences
without being interrupted, advised, ridiculed or fixed.
Through structured storytelling, deep listening and careful questions,
you will begin to notice where your energy is going, how money enters your
relationships, and what you may now be ready to reclaim for yourself.
This is not financial advice, business training, coaching or therapy. It
is a carefully facilitated space where the quiet truth within you is taken
seriously.
What We May Explore
The stories will come from the women in each circle. They may lead us to
explore:
- Giving, receiving and asking
- Money within families and
partnerships - Care, duty and responsibility
- Security, scarcity and enoughness
- Where our time and energy are
going - What we repeatedly postpone for
ourselves - What we may be ready to bring
into the world
The circle is not built around six fixed lessons. What emerges will be
shaped by the stories, questions and recurring patterns within the group.
What This Circle Is
A small group of 2–6 women meeting online once a week for six
weeks.
Each session follows a clear structure:
- A short grounding arrival
- Timed storytelling rounds
- Uninterrupted listening
- A precise reflective question
- Quiet integration
- A simple closing
There is no advice-giving, fixing or analysing one another. We do not
debate or comment on another woman’s story.
Each woman is given time to speak and space to listen inwardly.
How the Work Happens
Participants speak honestly about experiences that matter to them. The
other women listen without interruption, interpretation or solutions.
As facilitator, I hold the structure and occasionally offer a precise
question or reflection that may help a woman see her own position more clearly.
We do not analyse the other people in our lives. We turn our attention
towards ourselves:
What is happening within me?
What belongs to me—and what does not?
Where am I giving my energy away?
What am I now ready to choose consciously?
Why Six Weeks?
Clarity rarely arrives through one conversation. It develops as we
return, listen and notice what repeats.
Across six weeks, you may begin to recognise:
- How money affects your emotions
and relationships - Where care or responsibility has
become self-abandonment - Which voices have discouraged or
silenced you - What you genuinely want for
yourself - What may now be ready to move
The shift may be quiet rather than dramatic. You begin to pause, discern
and respond from choice instead of habit.
In our final gathering, each woman will be invited to name one conscious
step she feels ready to take. The circle will listen and bear witness.
Commitment
This is a live six-week circle.
Participants commit to the complete six-week journey. Sessions are not
recorded because confidentiality, trust and presence matter.
Group Size
2–6 women in each circle
Small enough for depth.
Large enough for different perspectives.
Investment
Six weekly facilitated online sessions
A carefully held small-group process
Structured storytelling, deep listening and reflective inquiry
USD 300 for the complete six-week circle
MEET THE FACILITATOR, LIAN HENRIKSEN
I facilitate Relational Clarity Circles — structured storytelling and deep-listening gatherings for women who want greater steadiness and clarity in family, work, and life relationships.
After many years working in coaching and healing practices, I now focus on holding disciplined reflective spaces where women can understand their own position more clearly and respond with greater confidence.
PARTICIPANTS REFLECTIONS FROM CIRCLES
I. PATTY, PARTICIPANT THE RELATIONAL CLARITY CIRCLE - FAMILY RELATIONSHIP ARC
“Something from the circle stayed with me in my daily conversations.
I felt more confident. People responded with authenticity and kindness.
Interactions became richer — even with my children.”
II. DRUMMING DRAGONFLIES: LISTENING AS A WAY OF LIVING
“Joining this circle was a blessing in divine timing.
I left with a deeper sense of grounded power and genuine gratitude.
I felt fully respected — heard without interruption, fixing, or advice.
Most of all, I left with hope.
Learning to listen this way changes how you meet yourself — and how you
meet others.”
III DRUMMING DRAGONFLIES: MEETING LIFE
“Over six weeks, I experienced real connection.
I felt seen and witnessed in a genuinely safe container.
That safety allowed clarity to emerge.
There was illumination — and a deep sense of peace.
This work stays with you.”
IV. SILVER DINING CIRCLES
Several participants have described these circles as a rare space where they could finally hear themselves think.
People frequently leave with words like trust, connection, gratitude, peace — and sometimes the realization that something in their own thinking has been gently challenged. That moment of honest reflection is often where relational clarity begins.
NEW HERE?
Every Thursday at 21:00 CET,
I host a free online circle for women.
Structured storytelling.
Deep listening.
No advice.
No fixing.
No interruption.
You speak.
You are witnessed.
You hear yourself more clearly.
Over time, something steadier forms.
It is not therapy.
It is not a discussion.
It is 90-minutes of disciplined listening practice, inside a respectful relational field.
Open to new women.
No long-term commitment required.
If you would like to join this Thursday,
please register for the Zoom link that will be sent to your email
A Grandmother's Call To Remember That You Are Much More than You Think You Are.
In a world fractured by speed, silence, and misunderstanding, what does it mean to truly listen?
At the age of 80, Lian Henriksen reflects on a lifetime of mothering, grandmothering, soul-searching, and circle-keeping. Through stories woven across generations and galaxies — from family wounds to spiritual awakenings — she invites us into a quiet revolution: one rooted in remembrance, radical honesty, and the courage to lead ourselves.
More than a memoir, A Listening Grandmother is a gentle offering to all who walk between worlds — those tending to ancestral faultlines, raising light-filled children, or simply longing to live with greater presence. This is a book for listeners, question-keepers, and those who carry a quiet hope for healing.
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